The Christmas lights glowing in the rain do not look like Christmas
lights to me. They look old and hazy and out-of-place; oddly out of
time. I feel as though I have suddenly been thrust into the middle of
March and people have forgotten to take the Christmas decorations down.
The rain is somewhere in between ice and snow and rain. It's just cold
enough that ice is mixing in but not cold enough to turn to snow and
color the landscape with Christmas white.
The rain is more ice than rain now, the Christmas lights seem almost haunting as I pass them. I'm feeling particularly vulnerable and unusually chilled tonight. I walk on despite my discomfort and increasingly dark mood. What a shame it is, I think, that I can't feel Christmas. The Christmas lights and decorations add to the gloom instead of brightening my spirits as they should. They seem almost mocking as they try to twinkle in the hazy gloam. It is a wet and cruel night.
I see a little neighborhood mom and pop store appear like a ghost in the night. I have been so lost in thought that I did not realize I had wandered this far from my home. The little store looks invitingly warm and cozy as I (and my shivering soul) approach it. I think perhaps I will stop in and buy a newspaper to read when I finally get home but I did not fool myself - I want to go in because the store looks inviting and warm and dry. And perhaps because I think a kind "hello" from the clerk inside might help jostle me from the dark and sad mood I'm in.
I walk in and the store smells old-fashioned and good. There is some pine-roping hanging from the counter and big, old-fashioned, Christmas lights decorating the coolers and the area behind the counter. It looks like something out of another decade - old ornaments and lights that had been dragged out of the same leaky attic for the past thirty years and put back in that same place every January - for the past thirty years. Nostalgia is such an odd cocktail of feelings.
The coffee smells good and it looks hot. I pour a cup and pretend to look through the magazines and newspapers. I'm standing there trying to decide exactly what I'm feeling. I hear the door jangle and watch a young girl about six or seven walk in with her mother. The little girl has long, curly, strawberry-blonde hair, and she's wearing a bright green coat with a big Santa Claus pin on it. It's one of the kind that lights up when you touch it. She kept touching it and it kept lighting up. Every time she touched it lit up and said "Ho! Ho! Ho! Merry Christmas!" in a tinny, computer-generated, voice. I thought that would be annoying if you had to listen to it all day, everyday. But tonight I find it comforting and happy.
I watch the little girl and her mom while pretending to peruse the periodicals. They came in to buy candy canes for their Christmas tree. I think it is wonderful that this family has waited this long to put up their Christmas tree. Mine has been up two weeks and I am already to the point where I'm so used to it I don't see it anymore. I find it precious that they are going to put real candy canes on their Christmas tree. I'm so sick of the department-store-look-designer-trees these days, I find this so refreshing. I wonder if they pop popcorn and make garland out of popcorn and cranberries and thread. I am tempted to ask them but think better of it. You know how paranoid the world is these days.
I pick up a newspaper and appear to scan the headlines. I can hear the tinny Santa "Ho, Ho, Ho-ing" away as the mom selects several boxes of red and white (that's the only real kind) of candy canes. The little girl's eyes are wide and full of wonder as only a child's eyes can be. I melt as I watch. I needed a good melting as cold as I was a few minutes ago.
Mom pays for the candy canes. The clerk bags them and hands the bag to the little girl. She practically lights up the little store with her one-tooth-missing smile. Just for a moment I am back in school and feel an unfamiliar rush of joy. I am walking down the street of my little town holding my grandfather's hand. We're going to see Santa Claus. "The real one", my grandpa reminds me.
I walk up to the counter just as the clerk hands the bag of real candy canes to the little girl, and stand behind them, waiting to pay for the newspaper. The mom and little girl turn to leave and the little girl looks up at me with beautiful brown eyes and says, "Merry Christmas" with smile so warm and real it reached in and took hold of my heart. I smile back and say "Merry Christmas to you too!". The mom smiled at me, took the little girl's hand and disappeared out the door.
I pay for my newspaper, still reeling from the beautiful assault on my emotions and walk out into the night. The icy mixture of rain and sleet had turned into the most beautiful kind of snow; big, fluffy flakes that take forever to fall from the sky to the ground. A little miracle, I think to myself, as I head home in the suddenly beautiful winter night.
Suddenly I feel the magic of Christmas that has evaded me so long this year. The magic of Christmas has nothing to do with decorations, lights, presents, Christmas trees or anything so material. It has everything to do with a little girl's smile and a mom who bought candy canes. I begin to think of Dickens and a favorite passage from "A Christmas Carol":
"But you were always a good man of business, Jacob,' faltered Scrooge, who now began to apply this to himself. 'Business!' cried the Ghost, wringing its hands again. 'Mankind was my business. The common welfare was my business; charity, mercy, forbearance, and benevolence were, all, my business. The dealings of my trade were but a drop of water in the comprehensive ocean of my business!' ["A Christmas Carol" - Charles Dickens]
How wonderfully perfect it is that in the captivating smile of a young girl I find the magic of Christmas. Her grace and innocence remind me, once again, that Christmas is more a matter of spirit than anything material. In the love of a mother for her child I find the magic of Christmas; and more that that I rediscovered the meaning of Christmas.
Charity, mercy, forbearance, benevolence, and love are all part of the magic of Christmas; but love is the greatest of these. In that little store I saw the love a mother and child share - that is spirit of Christmas.
The snowflakes, big and perfect, fall gently from the dark, winter sky. I pass house after house decorated for Christmas - the lights sparkling and bright and looking exactly as they should. As I pass by, I can feel the love of the families inside, warm, safe, and dry.
Another little miracle happened to me tonight. I witnessed memories being made. I saw perfect love in a child's smile and the spirit of Christmas pass between a mother and her child. In that instant I found the magic of Christmas inside my heart where it has always been - and where it will always be - as long as I live.
The gifts we give that matter most are the ones that cannot be bought or sold. The love we share and the memories we leave behind, are the greatest gifts we can give. They are the only gifts that last a lifetime.
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