Rain Puddles in Heaven
I read the text of speech made by the president regarding the tragedy in
Tucson, Arizona last weekend. And in that speech, referring to the
little girl, Christina Greene -- whose life was taken so senselessly by
an armed and sick man -- the president said, "...if there are rain
puddles in Heaven, Christina is jumping in them today..."
For some reason those words made me cry -- and made me think. It made me
think about many things: the wonder and innocence of children and how
short their precious childhoods are; the brevity of life itself; have I
really been as good a person, as good of a father, as good a friend as I
could be. Have I really done my very best to be the very best I can be.
So often we get caught up in our own concerns; we get caught in the trap
of our busy lives, in the tangled web of our own routines, and in the
worries and the concerns we face. I don't know if there are rain puddles
in Heaven, but I know for sure there are rain puddles here on Earth.
I can't remember the last time I looked at rain puddles -- those dancing
street-side pools full of reflections, so utterly quiescent on a gentle
spring evening --and wanted to jump in one.
How sadly grown-up I've become. Now I avoid those rain puddles as much
as I can. But when we are children we can't resist splashing in those
rain puddles that spring up after a brief but furious summer
thunderstorm -- the air fresh with the scent of rain, the storm past and
rumbling away to visit another town and leaving behind all those
shimmering rain puddles, just right for jumping into.
How many rain puddles have you jumped in lately? You probably avoid them
just like I do. How many times have you awakened in the morning and
watched as the sun rose on a brand new day - and really appreciated the
wonder and the beauty of it? How many times have you taken the time to
make the life of someone you know a little better? How many times have
you given up something in order to make someone else a little bit
happier, or their lives a little better, or shared their sorrow and made
it a little easier to endure ? How many times have you held back a rush
of hurtful, harsh words when someone has lashed out at you with a
vicious tirade or an insulting or hurtful remark? Words are powerful
things; words can hurt and words can heal. How many times have you
stopped to consider the affect your words will have on others?
Too often we look at life as an entitlement, rather than the gift it is.
We're so burdened with our own quest for happiness that we sometimes
forget that the greatest happiness of all comes from making someone else
happy, or someone's else's burdens a little bit lighter. Those who look
to someone else to make them happy are most often disappointed. Each one
of us is in control of our own happiness. Making those you care about
and love happy, makes you happy. Too often, though, we forget that
happiness comes from within. Being kind to others, making someone smile,
or helping another lighten his or her burden brings with it an
inner-happiness that lasts.
I have too often been guilty of using harsh or hurtful words when kind
words would have healed and soothed. I've chosen thoughtless and harsh
words and only made things worse than they needed to be. When I've done
that, it didn't make me happy, it only made things worse for myself and
the ones I care most about.
I don't know if there are rain puddles in Heaven, but I know there are
rain puddles here on Earth. I don't know why children find rain puddles
so intriguing or why they want to jump and splash in them, sadly I've
forgotten the reason why. But when I was a child I remember wanting to
jump in them and splash through them on my bike. We all grow up though,
and those rain puddles that once amused and intrigued us as children are
just rain puddles that pool on the sides of busy streets; rain puddles
are just rain puddles now - things to be avoided. We all lose our
innocence; we all lose our curiosity; we all lose the magical parts of
us all of us had inside as children.
We are all in hurry to grow up, but in growing up we leave so much
behind.
I don't know if there are rain puddles in Heaven, but I know there are
rain puddles here on Earth. We shouldn't wait to find out if there are
rain puddles in Heaven, we should jump in the ones we have right here,
right now.
Today, jump in a rain puddle; make someone you know feel better; perform
just one small act of kindness today - for someone you love or for
someone you don't even know very well. Hug your children and remember
what a precious gift they are - and the precious gifts they possess.
Jump in the rain puddles all around you. Think before you speak words
you know will hurt someone -- instead choose gentler words; make your
point quietly and without animosity. Use healing and comforting words
when you can. Hateful words not only hurt others, they steal the
happiness inside
Our time on this Earth is fleeting. On that sunny Saturday afternoon in
Tuscon, not one of those who lost there lives ever dreamed that day
would be their last day on this Earth. And now they can only hope that
there are rain puddles in Heaven. Let's all hope for the sake of that
beautiful little girl, who lost her life that day, that there are rain
puddles in Heaven for her to jump in.
Not a single one of us knows if this day is our last day, or if tomorrow
will be our last day - or the day after that will be our last day. We
cannot know - most of us would never want to know. What I do know is
that every day is a gift and not something we're entitled to -- far too
often I'm guilty of forgetting that.
Some of us do all we can to extend our lives as long as we can; others,
troubled by the increasingly heavy burdens of life - the guilt, sadness,
tragedy and sorrow, choose to end their lives because they have lost
hope. But hope, like happiness, does not come from others, it comes from
within. There are rain puddles to jump in, but sometimes they are
awfully hard to see in the dark.
Whether there are rain puddles in Heaven or not, there are rain puddles
here on Earth. Make someone smile today; make someone feel better about
themselves; say a kind word to someone you care about; take time to make
someone feel better about themselves. If you look to others to make you
you happy, you will most often find yourself disappointed. Happiness
comes from within. Happiness is yours when you make someone smile, when
you make someone feel better; happiness is yours when you take time to
to lift another up and lighten their burdens or lift them up, or ease
their sorrow.
I can be a better person than I think we am. I can be the kind of person
who brings light into a shadowed room; I can be the kind of person who
gives hope to to those without hope. I can makes someone smile today.
And so can you.
I don't know if there are rain puddles in Heaven, but I know for sure
there are rain puddles here.
Take time to jump in a rain puddle today
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