Autumnal Equinox
The autumnal equinox arrived silently, on cat’s paws, at 8:43 a.m. on Sunday, September 22, 2024.
According to those who know the equinox – which is Latin for “Equal night” – means the days and nights will be nearly equal in length as the sun crosses the equator on its way to the Tropic of Capricorn. When it reaches the Tropic of Capricorn, it will be winter here. Then the sun will begin its journey northward. When it crosses the equator again, it will be spring where I live and the days and nights will be of nearly equal length again.
The area between the Equator and the Tropic of Cancer and the Tropic of Capricorn is called The Tropics.
I don’t live in a tropical region. I live near the Great Lakes. Autumn is my favorite time of year when the walking trails are full of vivid reds, oranges, yellows, and browns. The trees look like they were painted by an artist.
Maybe they were.
Besides enjoying walks through the woods of blazing colors, the beginning of autumn always touches something inside of me. Some primordial facet of my soul makes me pensive and leads me to thoughts and ideas, as well as worries and concerns.
On this autumnal equinox, I worry about the world we’ve created and the world in which my grandchildren and their children will grow up.
To me, the world seems to get meaner and people seem to treat each other worse every day. There is no room for compromise anymore. There is much violence and evil in the world and I can’t help but think that social media is playing a role. Social media isn’t causing the hatred and meanness – but it gives the haters and the miscreants, the charlatans, and the conspiracy theorists — the worst of us– a megaphone to broadcast their hate and spread their venom and snake oil to anyone and everyone willing to read or listen. Podcasts, webcasts, Facebook videos, X (Twitter) videos; Instagram, and other up-and-coming social media networks are all aligned now to give the most degenerate voice a megaphone large enough to spread their creepy weirdness, hate, and vicious lies everywhere.
There is no doubt that giving people a common enemy is a quick – if not moral – way to bring people together. If you point the finger of blame and hate a certain group of people – you create a sense of belonging to those who join you in your hate.
For those who hate, social media is a soapbox to spread the hate and give creepy and vicious ideas to others.
I’ve been alive a long time and I have never seen our country like this. There is so much hate. Too much hate and too much meanness. People can’t seem to disagree without hating those they disagree with. Meaness and violence and hate swelling up all over and no one seems to care.
And the rest of the world isn’t much better.
So much of the misinformation circulating online is being assimilated and accepted as truth that for some it’s hard to tell what is real and what is not. According to a study by the Pew Research Center, 64% of American adults say that online platforms have a major role in spreading made-up news and information. This can lead to meanness and hatred towards certain groups or individuals who are targeted by false or misleading information. Things that are not even remotely true are accepted as truth. Many want simple answers to complex problems and don’t want to take the time to test the veracity of the information they ingest. Many have no desire to find the truth.
Yet there is only one truth. Lies and misinformation aren’t the truth, but it only takes a few minutes of reading social media posts, listening to podcasts, or watching social media videos to see that far too many people are willing to embrace misinformation as the truth and don’t want to or don’t feel the need to take the time to verify the facts.
The truth gets twisted into serpentine braids of lies and hatred without regard for kindness, courtesy, or the feelings of others.
It’s easier to believe in simple lies than in complicated truths.
I am saddened and frightened by the direction in which the world is heading. I wonder what kind of country and what kind of world my grandchildren and their children will grow up in. I fear that meanness and hatred are becoming acceptable and normal.
But, it’s not normal and it’s not acceptable. And most of all, it’s not right. Lies can never be true. It has become acceptable to be mean and say and say hateful things about and to those we don’t agree with and to those who don’t agree with us. It’s easy to despise those who don’t look like us, don’t live like us, or don’t believe like us. It’s too far too easy for haters to lead hateful crusades.
Why and how has it become so easy for meanness and hate to grow? That’s not the way it’s supposed to be. We are supposed to be tolerant and kind and to love, care, and treat everyone the way we want to be treated. Is it easier to hate and be mean than to love and be kind?
I re-read the parable of the good samaritan and it made me think…
An expert in the law asked Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”
Jesus answered… “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. 31 A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. 32 So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. 33 But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. 34 He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. 35 The next day he took out two denarii[c] and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’
36 “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”
37 The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.”
Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.” (Luke 10:25-37)
How many of us would be like the good Samaritan? Who would help someone who didn’t look like them or believe like them? It’s hard to be kind to those you don’t agree with. It’s really hard to be nice to those who don’t like us. It’s much easier to be dismissive and dislike those we don’t agree with and who don’t like us.
But in our hearts, we know that’s not right. And things have to change or they will only get worse and our children and our grandchildren and their children will be living in an unimaginably cruel, mean, and hateful world.
The autumnal equinox makes me think. It makes me pensive and reflective. Autumn reminds me that in the universe there is order and even in its violence, it’s easy to find peace.
There are so many reasons to be thankful for the good things we have. In autumn, it’s easy to see the beauty that is all around me. It’s so easy for me to find peace in the season. There is so much beauty in the simple things… in the lovely country roads beautifully bordered by blazing autumn leaves of orange, red, and yellow – the silver-white frost on the lawns and the pumpkins — the nostalgic smell of burning leaves wafting through the still autumn air. All of these things remind me of how things should be, how they used to be, and how they still could be. But not how they are…
Maybe it’s time for us to take a break and look inward. Take a look at what we’ve become. And to try to be better people not only for ourselves but for the world in which we all live. We all share the same sun, the same moon, the same sky, the same air. We all live on this Earth and we will all die on it. We share so much more in common than we think. There is still much beauty and peace in the world but we need to take the time to look.
We can begin by looking inside.
The world would be a better place, I think if we all remembered the parable of the good Samaritan. It reminds me that mercy, kindness, and love can overcome the hate and meanness that seems to be growing all around us.
Maybe it’s time we all remember the good Samaritan and… “Go and do likewise”.
I absolutely agree, TC. Hate has grown and lies have become rampant over the past few years. It is very sad. Those of us who have seen a better world find it particularly hard to deal with at this point. Thanks for putting into words what we should all feel in our hearts.
Well said, and sadly very true. Love your ending with positive thoughts on the way forward.
Thank you again TC for a very meaningful essay. I agree with every word and often say how fearful I am for my grand and great-grandchildren. Who knows what the future is going to bring? Your thoughtful words tell us what sort of people you are and how lucky we all are to know and be able to trust you – seemingly a rare commodity in the world today. May God richly bless you and give you peace.
Kindest Regards
Rona